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Tough or Smart?
Whats Your Most Powerful Self-Defense Weapon: Mind or Body?
By Randy LaHaie
There are as many approaches to self-defense as there are reasons why people study it.
What are YOUR reasons and what approach are
YOU using? How confident are you that your efforts will produce the results what you want?
What is it about self-defense that interests you? (if you want to email me directly and tell me outright...
click here)
You must be looking for something or you wouldn't be reading this, right?
Some people learn self-defense to defend themselves from the violent actions of others! (Duh!!!) They want to satisfy the essential need for
security and control.
Others are after self-confidence and an improved self-image.
Then there are those who don't care much about "fighting" at all.
They're just looking for an enjoyable, functional and "cool" ;-) way to get into great shape.
Maybe you're after "ALL OF THE ABOVE." (like me ;-) Well then keep reading friend... because I've got some
thoughts to throw at ya...
Two Approaches To Self-Defense
There are two broad categories of self-defense information. Whether they spell it out or not, all self-defense books,
articles, classes and seminars are based on one or both of two "themes"... a MENTAL APPROACH or a PHYSICAL APPROACH.
The "Physical Approach" is based on "EFFICIENCY." It pursues physical skill development as a self-defense
solution. It involves learning punches, kicks, grappling and defensive techniques. Although avoiding a physical altercation is given
"passing attention," EXACTLY how to do that is often glazed over or not addressed at all.
Whether you enroll in a martial arts class, sign up for a self-defense seminar or join a boxing club, the
focus is to teach you how to physically perform "fight-related" techniques.
"Fitness-based" training, such as Tae Bo, Cardio Kickboxing and Boxercise also fall in this category.
The assumption here is that your BODY is your weapon and the harder you train and the better you get at performing
self-defense techniques, the safer and more capable you will be to defend yourself.
The "Mental Approach" is based on "Effectiveness." It is focused on "Personal Safety" theories, concepts
and strategies.
This theory-based approach involves gaining an understanding of predatory situations; how they happen, how they
can be anticipated and recognized, how they can be avoided and how to respond if you encounter one.
Your BRAIN is considered your most powerful self-defense weapon, and this training (hypothetically) makes you
"SMARTER" and more capable of wise decisions in the stress and chaos of threatening situations.
"Efficiency and Effectiveness" What's the Difference?
Perhaps the point I am trying to make will be clearer if we come to a common understanding of exactly what I
mean by these two terms. Before you read on... think for a moment and come up with your own definition of these
terms... Done? Here's mine...
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Efficiency Is Doing Things Right
Effectiveness Is Doing The Right Things
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Can you see the difference? I hope so, because it's HUUUUUUUUUUUUGE!!!! Here's how those terms relate to self-defense
training.
The Physical Approach To Self-Defense
The Physical Approach involves learning and practicing physical skills "efficiently." The faster, more
coordinated, more powerful your striking, kicking, grappling and defensive techniques are, the more "successful"
you consider yourself.
There are many self-defense courses that deal exclusively with learning techniques, with
and without training partners, as a TOTAL solution for all your self-defense problems.
Now don't get me wrong... I'm not criticizing this approach in any way. I teach physical skills classes and
seminars myself.
Learning physical skills can dramatically improve your odds of surviving and escaping a violent
situation. It can even reduce the probability of being confronted or attacked.
If done properly, on a regular basis (which I highly recommend), self-defense conditioning and skills training
like sparring or hitting a heavy bag, will provide a ton of physical, mental and emotional benefits.
BUT is the exclusive practice of techniques a sufficient "self-defense solution?"
Benefits Of The Physical Approach
- Physical skills training is a GREAT way to get in shape and stay there. If properly done,
ongoing self-defense training is a fun and functional, full-body workout.
- The self-confidence, fitness, and athletic qualities gained through regular self-defense training will have
a positive influence on your "victim profile" (behavior and body language) that you project to a potential predator.
It can decrease the probability of being targeted. (Dirt bags don't pick fights with people they perceive are
likely and capable to fight back)
- Unlike "single-exposure" self-defense training (where you learn a technique once and never practice it again)
, ONGOING self-defense training is proactive. Regular self-defense training "rewards" you in many ways, even
if you NEVER have to defend yourself.
- Regular self-defense training "defends and protects" you against more probable and legitimate "threats" to your life, your
health and well-being. You are at more risk from poor lifestyle habits and a lack of exercise than you are from a mugger
or rapist.
Drawbacks to a Physical Only Approach
- If you limit your self-defense efforts exclusively to physical skills training, you also limit your
response options in a volatile situation. You are limited to a "Fight/Don't Fight" decision. There are
more ways to resolve a volatile situations than that (there are 5 actually). Doing the "wrong thing" well
(like fighting when you don't have to) can get you injured, arrested or sued.
- Regular self-defense training makes you feel great. You'll feel confident, energetic and fit. (so how is
that a drawback?) Don't make the mistake of over estimating your potential of defeating an attacker and end up
over your head in an encounter with someone who is tougher, meaner and more malicious than you are. Don't think that
your weekly cardio-kickboxing class has turned you into a "trained killer!"
- Even the "best" fighter will be dropped like a bag of dirt if he or she doesn't develop appropriate awareness
and avoidance skills and is caught off guard. Physical skills don't protect you from unanticipated acts of violence.
The Mental Approach To Self-Defense
The Mental Approach addresses the "big picture" of predatory situations. In my self-defense system for
example, there are "SEVEN" separate and interrelated aspects of a comprehensive personal safety or
self-defense system.
The intent of this mental approach is to make you "smarter" and more capable of avoiding, diffusing and responding
EFFECTIVELY by doing the RIGHT THINGS in a volatile situation. By the "RIGHT THINGS," I'm referring to the most
effective response strategies to successfully resolve a threatening or volatile situation. Fighting back with physical
self-defense techniques is only part of staying safe.
Benefits Of The Mental Approach
- An accurate understanding of the dynamics of predatory situations increases the odds of anticipating,
avoiding, recognizing and responding to them. The "best" result to a violent encounter is not when you manage to
fight your way out of it. It's when it doesn't happen in the first place!
- Not all volatile situations can be solved by fighting. Effectiveness in a self-defense situation allows you
to assess and evaluate the circumstances and select the most effective response strategy to implement to gain or
regain control.
- A sense of control that accompanies proper mental training decreases the stress and fear associated
with volatile or predatory situations. And that increased sense of control and self-confidence can reduce the
potential of being victimized.
Drawbacks To A Mental Only Approach
- An "information-only" approach does not significantly change the body language that you project to a potential
assailant. Although some self-defense instructors imply that you can "fake" non-victim body language by walking
briskly, standing straight, and "pretending to be confident." That will only go so far. Pretending to be coordinated,
strong and physically fit is easier said than done.
- Knowing the best response option in a given situation, be it running away or fighting back, is of little value
if you can't successfully pull it off. If you haven't developed your skills and fitness levels by ongoing self-defense
practice, how likely are you to out-run or out-fight an assailant?
One OR The Other Is Incomplete
You've probably figured out by now that ONE OR THE OTHER of these two approaches is an incomplete approach
to being able to defend yourself. An optimal strategy is to combine and balance your ability
to make smart, effective decisions with the ability to carry those decisions through to a successful conclusion.
BOTH mental AND physical elements are required for optimal self-defense success.
Be effective first, then be efficient. A medical equivalent might be to "Diagnose First The Perscribe."
To successfully resolve a volatile situation, you need sound judgement to decide on the best course of action AND
the physical skills and ability to implement your game plan.
The degree to which you pursue each approach has a lot to do with your capabilities, limitations and the
goals you have in relation to your study of self-defense.
If you are smaller, weaker, older for example, your emphasis should lean more toward personal safety strategies and
be supplemented with physical skills training. If your self-defense goals are simply to avoid victimization and to stay
out of trouble, then learn everything you can about the dynamics of volatile situations.
On the other hand, maybe you are fit, athletic and skillful. Perhaps you already train regularly and feel capable of "holding
your own" if you have to defend yourself. If thats the case, here are a couple pieces of advice to consider:
Two Approaches? Two Resources!
The questions I get by email and in person, can be divided into two clear categories... "What-Should-I-Do-If...questions"
and "How-Do-I...questions." Or in otherwords effectiveness and efficiency.
It is because of these different but complimentary aspects
of self-defense that I've decided to "split" the focus of my web sites so I can address each in greater detail.
I'm in the process of restructuring of my web sites to assist you in finding the information you
are looking for.
http://www.ProtectiveStrategies.com will
continue to be "home base" for my self-defense newsletter. The site will maintain a "Get Smart Focus"
by dealing with the Big Picture of personal safety concepts and will address
all seven components of self-defense:
- Self-Defense Psychology
- Self-Defense Intelligence
- Victim Selection
- Predatory Recognition
- Self-Defense Response Options
- Prevention and Avoidance
- Self-Defense Training Methods
My Combative Training site, http://www.ToughenUp.com/ takes the "Get Tough Focus" of
the seventh component: Self-Defense Training Methods to the next level. It provides specific "how-to-train" resources and
advice for people who want to incorporate ongoing self-defense training for a variety of reasons.
My most recent eBook for example, "The Toughen Up Guide to Power Punching"
is the first in a series of how-to-train resources that covers everything you need to know about proper punching methods
and how to incorporate them into productive, ongoing self-defense workouts. I have a number of other training resources
in the works to address and expand on several aspects of self-defense training methods.
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Randy LaHaie has been teaching self-defense for over 30 years. He is the editor of the Protective Strategies
Self-Defense Newsletter and author of a newly released training guide,
The Toughen Up Guide to Power Punching.
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